This book is a result of more than 40,000 hours of behind-the-defenses experiences with some of the finest, emotionally healthy leaders of our generation. This model was developed to maximize healthy people with a few emotional mysteries still unanswered. 1. Why do I have a phobic fear of failure, rejection, or insignificance? 2. Why am I so driven to be admired, recognized, appreciated, secure, respected, or accepted? 3. Why am I an enabler, leader, promoter, rescuer, controller, people pleaser? 4. Why am I a perfectionist, workaholic? 5. Why are pastors vulnerable to affairs? 6. Where am I the most vulnerable to temptation? 7. How do I guard against temptation? 8. Why do I have such a hard time relating to my parents when I love them so much? 9. Why do my parents sometimes seem like such children? These and other emotional mysteries can be understood and resolved in the silence of your own heart without years of therapy.